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The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your Dream Wedding & Celebrations

Getting Started: The Fundamentals

First things first – let’s nail down the basics that will shape your entire event:

1. Setting Your Date & Budget
  • Choose your ideal season
  • Determine guest count (this affects EVERYTHING)
  • Set a realistic budget with 10-15% buffer
  • Book venue 12-18 months in advance
2. Core Planning Elements
  • Must-book vendors:
    • Venue
    • Photographer
    • Caterer
    • DJ/Band
    • Florist
  • Key timing milestones:
    • Save the dates: 8-12 months before
    • Invitations: 6-8 weeks before
    • RSVPs due: 3-4 weeks before

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Bringing Your Vision to Life

Here’s how to develop your wedding style:

Theme & Color Palette
  • Choose 2-3 main colors plus accent shades
  • Consider season and venue style
  • Test colors in different lighting
  • Request fabric swatches
Design Elements
  • Florals:
    • Seasonal blooms save money
    • Mix textures and sizes
    • Consider centerpiece heights
    • Book florist 6-8 months ahead
  • Decor:
    • Lighting sets the mood
    • Layer textiles for depth
    • Use rentals strategically
    • Create focal points

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Making It Personal

The special touches that make it uniquely yours:

Meaningful Moments
  • Write personal vows
  • Include family traditions
  • Create custom cocktails
  • Display family photos
  • Play significant songs
Guest Experience
  • Welcome bags
  • Comfortable seating
  • Good flow between spaces
  • Clear signage
  • Weather backup plans

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The Timeline

A stress-free wedding day needs solid scheduling:

12+ Months Before
  • Book major vendors
  • Start dress shopping
  • Create wedding website
  • Book hotel blocks
6 Months Before
  • Order invitations
  • Plan menu
  • Book rentals
  • Schedule trials
1 Month Before
  • Final vendor meetings
  • Create timeline
  • Confirm details
  • Break in shoes

Remember: This is YOUR day. Focus on what matters most to you and don’t get caught up in trends or others’ expectations.

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